R J & Jen,
A few notes and what works for me:
BRIDLES- They work well on a mooring ball or in calm conditions at anchor. While anchored in heavy weather not so well. Your boat will swing to port until the port side takes the load and then to starboard until the starboard side takes the load and back and forth and back and forth putting a heavy strain on the anchor and driving you nuts.
BOBSTAYS- I have seen lots of different stuff covering bobstays. This is a BAD idea as it creates an oxygen starved environment and with sea water present will cause corrosion.
CHAIN GRABBERS- Hooks, chain grabbers, plates and such will chip the galvanizing from your chain and can come loose at inopertune times. Throw them away and use a rolling hitch. It will never fail.
SNUBBERS- A smaller diameter snubber is better to allow some stretch.
WHAT I USE- A 1/2" 3 strand nylon with thimble and shackled to the cranse iron at the end of the bowsprit tied to the chain with a rolling hitch. It should be at least 10 feet to 20 feet long. Set your anchor, tie the snubber, let the chain out until the strain is on the snubber. Let out a little more chain to hang in a loop and it won't bang on the bobstay.
Lee