Rosemary:
Here is how I rigged Pygmalion.
There is also other images under Members Area > Westsail Rigging - the slide show is clickable to the picasa album.
Of course this is one way... Granted the main halyard into the cockpit does add to the organization challenges (I found that sheet bags work pretty well) but I do like to be able to put in the first reef without leaving the cockpit. The lines on the port side are for the lazy jacks and the forward and aft reef lines.
I do find that when I lower the main that I need to help fold the sail into the lazy jacks so I'm still at the mast. I guess I'm 50 - 50 on the main sheet to the cockpit as better then just at the mast.
If you have a dodger cabin top does become crowded with lines, clutches and wenches/winches.
Also the lines in the cockpit can be a PITA with 4 folks in the cockpit...
HTH
Jay