Hello Don, I have 2 cents worth. Maybe only one. I use a full Tri-radial and thus a pole on Saraband. I more often use a large Drifter/Reacher with no pole. I set the Drifter 2 different ways, depending on my mood at that time. They use different halyard and tack equipment and one method is not better than the other. 1) outside the headstay: A proper spinnaker bale and block and halyard are used. At the tack I have a SS tang with a 1/2" hole, welded to the front of the Cranse iron (Bow Cap). A shackle and Snatch block are added to this, The tack line from the sail, about 15', is led through this block and made fast on the sampson post before hoisting. The sheets are run out with the Lazy sheet going all the way around the outside of the headstay and then aft, Hoist the sail fully. Adjust the sheet and tack as necessary. I have done this a hundred times with no sock. But also with a sock. If using the sock then you can hoist the sail fully before running the sheets and tack but you must have control of the sock. All told, the sock is easier, ESPECIALLY when dousing the sail. I am currently not using a sock only because I do not like the physical size of the sail in the bag with the sock. This method will require a Gybe, not a tack.
2) Inside the headstay: I use my 3rd, middle halyard. This halyard is run through a "Harken Halyard restrainer" mounted about 6" down from the mast head exit. I had this hardware modified by a welder to "soften" the edges as the halyard will be rubbing on it's sides. The tack attachment is a piece of rope tied around the bowsprit. Use your imagination. The loop is about 6" above the sprit and just aft of my roller furler. A friend of mine uses a proper pad eye bolted to the sprit. I use a carabiner to attach the tack of the sail to this loop, The sheets are run like a Genoa with the lazy sheet inside the headstay. Once again a sock may or may not be used. This method requires a tack not a gybe. I have used this method hundreds of times. Important Note: the sock will consume about 14” of hoist. You will want to hoist your sail and insure that you have at least that 14” to spare on your halyard before adding a sock.
Good luck. I hope this info can be visualized and helpful. OH! by the way. Don't forget the annual New Years Day sail. It is bad luck, I hear, to not sail.
Best Regards, Dave