Hello Ken,  I once needed to change my boomkin stays in a location that did not have a rigger.  I used plated chain, not galvanized.  Regrettably, I do not recall whether I used 5/16 or 3/8".  At any rate, I sailed on down the coast to San Francisco , across to Hawaii, and then back to Portland, Oregon.  I pushed the boat a bit hard and flew the Spinnaker most of the way across.  This put max load on those stays.  I had no problems and see no problem.  I changed those stays back to 5/16" SS wire after I found some money.    Good luck,   Dave                                        Edit:  I found the chain I used for that trip and it is 3/8"