James, I appreciate your mention of safety dealing with the toluene. Many DIY boaters often neglect appropriate safety measures because the rush of the dream is so strong. However, I have industrial strength gloves and respirators.
The bow area was really clean with no under teak leaks, but my teak came up in whole pieces once I used an oscillating tool under the teak. After that, I just need to tap a small trim pry tool under and slowly apply pressure. Once the bond began to break, the bedding mostly stripped from the teak.
The side decks were the area for under teak water flow. This sections came up in almost full panels up to 20 feet long. The residue there was no longer adhering.
However, the stern area on our WS42, was like your bow area. The bedding compound was tenacious and the decking came up in pieces. After the ease of the bow and side deck areas, I thought I needed a few more Wheaties!
I understand your comments about cracking of the deck gel coat. I agree. Yet, on Harmony, the cracking of gel coat was between the diamond pattern anti skid. From what I have seen so far, the presence of hairline cracks in the anti skid is almost a null set. My repair regimen will include epoxy fairing and new glass where appropriate.
My intention is to repaint the deck and cabin house after reaping the gel coat cracks. The deck will be painted with Kiwi grip type paint, as I don't expect to be able to reuse the existing anti skid pattern completely.
While I love the look and nostalgia of the teak deck, it is too much effort and cost to replace with a proper teak deck. To add a veneer of teak or a facsimile laminate seems like heresy on a Westsail. The Kiwi grip type coating at least retains a somewhat traditional deck look.
During my gutting and rebuilding the interior, I removed the head liners from from all deck areas. I was astonished to not find the 'stalagtites" you mentioned. I had expected copious signs of deck leakage.
Surprisingly, I found none! Before I purchased Harmony in its dilapidated state, I had a surveyor run a moisture meter over the entire deck and hull. I also repeated the test. Given that the boat had been stored outside and uncovered for several years, I expected a soggy mess. The meter showed acceptable dryness! The "rivers" flowing under the deck were measured as only minor wetness. I count myself lucky after my test confirmed what the surveyor said.
Ah, but yes, I had leakage! The mid-ships cap rails leak due to the working of the sheet metal screws holding the teak to the bulwark joint. I will fix this this summer - there is a GREAT treatise on how to do this fix on this site. The absent lazerette hatch in the stern has provided an entry point for rain, but that will patched in the coming days.
Thanks again for both your counsel and proper concern for safety.
Doug